Complimenting a woman is all about saying the right thing. You could spend all evening heaping her with praise, but if you don’t pick topics that matter you’re wasting your breath. Knowing a woman enables to give the best compliments, but that takes time. For the first date all you need to know are three simple topics. Space these out during dinner, and you’ll have swayed her to your side by dessert.
1. Her Hair
Women do a lot to their hair. In addition to washing and brushing there’s curling, straightening, hair spraying, and primping. A lot of effort goes into making even the simplest hairstyle noticeable. Even if she’s left it down and flowing, you can bet more prep went into it than seems reasonable. Reward that effort with a quick compliment. She’ll feel like you appreciate all that she went through.
Don’t worry if her hair actually looks very natural. If she did a relatively simple routine you will still be giving an effective compliment. She’ll feel like she got the look that comes with three hours in front of the bathroom mirror even though she didn’t. Boosting her confidence is only going to spell better things for you as the night progresses.
2. Her Lips
If lipstick ever went out of fashion, every women’s magazine would go bankrupt overnight. Every single one of a woman’s ten shades of red lipstick means a specific thing to her. It’s probably coordinated with her nail color and her purse. Lipstick is the kind of thing that women use to impress other women, because a man really doesn’t care much beyond “red.” Complimenting her on this means you’re really paying attention, and she’ll love that.
This is also a very flirty compliment. You’ve been looking at her lips and you like them. This is the sort of thing to say as you gaze across the table at each other. Slip it in at the right moment and you’ll be able to feel the temperature in the room edge up a degree.
3. Her Shoes
The cliché of “women love shoes” exists because women love shoes. Generally men don’t have much to say about shoes that doesn’t include the words “thigh-high” or “stripper heels.” Picking a compliment like that flatters her while setting you apart from the crowd.
If it comes naturally, try to tell her that she’s “pulling off those shoes.” Wearing shoes is typically not a daring adventure, but it’s the kind of phrase that women love to hear. It makes her feel special and different, which means that you will be regarded as special and different.
Complimenting a woman doesn’t have to be difficult and uncomfortable. You don’t have to waste your time by guessing what to say. These three compliments are across the board guaranteed flattery material. Whether she usually gets a lot of compliments or this is totally new to her, picking effective compliments is the best way to sound genuine while making her feel great.