It does not matter what the pretenses of your meeting are, every girl likes to feel like you respect her as a woman. This is not possible if you are making her feel like it is all about you and what you want. Take into consideration what it is she wants in order to get her excited about being with you. Keep in mind the more excited she is about being with you, the more likely it is you will get what you want anyhow. This is why you need to show her you are a gentleman at every turn. To do this, you should be holding doors, protecting her when possible, and offering her first dibs on anything. She will love being treated like a lady and you will love being treated like a king later on.
Holding Doors for Her
Whenever you are walking into a restaurant or getting into a car, you should be holding the door so she can get in or out. This is to protect her from having to touch the door in the first place as well as making sure she will be able to walk through the door unhindered. This harkens back to the days of the hoop skirts where women could not hold the door open and walk through it at the same time. Just because she is wearing a slinky mini skirt or skinny jeans does not mean she does not recognize the courtesy of your holding the door.
Protecting Her When Possible
Every woman wants to feel she is safe with the guy she is with. This is why you should do little things to protect her. When you are walking down the sidewalk, you can ask her to walk on the opposite side of you from the street. Let her know this is so you can protect her in case some car loses control. Also, anytime there is something happening which could be dangerous, shield her from the danger. She will lose complete respect for you and be absolutely turned off if you are cowering in fear when danger lurks. Make sure you are willing to stand up and be brave or you might as well stay home.
Giving Her First Dibs
Whenever there is a chance to allow your date to have something, you should let her have it. If there is only one thing to offer, make sure she is the one who gets it. This shows her you are willing to give her anything, even if it means you get nothing. She may end up sharing it with you. Even if she does not share it with you, she is going to remember the fact you were so noble as to make sure she could have whatever it was and she will want to show you her appreciation. It is because of the rewards you are going to receive you should always make sure you are treating her like a lady, unlike the other guys.