While all clubs differ in some way or another, they also all have different threads of common courtesies, rules, and engagements. It can be a little more nerve-racking heading to a local fetish club than heading out to a club or bar. You might be reluctant to go since you’ll have no idea how it differs from other nightclubs (there will probably be a lot more sex) and can opt to just go to a really laid back place that has people dressing up in sexy costumes. That’s all fine and dandy, but if you’re really looking to have a good time, head to a BDSM or fetish club in your area. Don’t worry. You’re probably just going to find that:
There Will Be So Much Nudity
Seriously, so much of it. Whether it’s your nudity or theirs, it will be out in the open with absolutely no shame about it. The person could be attractive or they could be downright ugly, but they fit into the fetish scene just as much as you do.
Pleather, Leather, and Latex
Fetish clothing runs rampant in these places. People often spend so much money on the gear that they wear that they want to show it off. Since they can’t go to the local grocery store with their latex body suit on the only chance that they really get to wear it is when they go out. Most of the garments will be extravagant or ball-bustingly painful looking.
Sex, Sex, and More Sex
Obviously if you go to a dance club you’re going to want to dance, and if you’re heading to a fetish club you’re going to want to…fetish? Yes, absolutely. Most hardcore clubs have play rooms or dungeons where couples or groups can act on their carnal desires. Good ones provide free condoms and trashcans for the toss off. Even though you may not be playing in these and they’re not in the middle of the building, you will be walking by them at some point and most likely hearing the chorus from within along with the music.
These nightclubs do have dance floors for those that are interested, but don’t expect any Lady Gaga to start playing. The music that goes along with the atmosphere is of a heavier, industrial variety. While you can still get down and groove really sexy-like with your choice of person, you aren’t really going to get to show off all of those dance classes you’ve been taking.
Unless you head off to one of the elite or exclusive clubs, you’re going to meet many open-minded fetishists who would love to get to know you. Sometimes they can be a bit too friendly for some people’s liking. Be prepared to be groped at and rubbed against, but also just doted on. This is particularly true if you’re going to a club that caters to one of the sexes being worshiped. You’re not likely to find someone that’s just going to buy you drinks, but you may encounter another friendly couple looking for some company for the night.