The biggest problem guys try to figure out when they are looking to meet women is what women want in a man. There is no simpler way to say this other than to say what women want is you. There is no cookie-cutter, factory stamped and approved guy every woman is looking for. Some women like sensitive guys while other women like a guy who is callous and distant. The idea you can make yourself into the kind of guy no woman can refuse is one you need to get out of your head. After all, the less you act like yourself, the less chance you have of her liking you anyway. This is why when you are looking to stand apart, you should be honest in your profile, offer more incentive to get to know you and avoid the attempt to look like the perfect guy. This will help you to be yourself and get the attention you want from the women who will love you for who you are.
Be Honest In Your Profile
Women put a lot of stock in honesty. The more honest you are when you are getting to know women the more honest it is likely you will be throughout the relationship. Make sure you are talking about the things which truly interest you in life and the things you are truly looking for in a relationship. The women who get excited about the guy you are will contact you. The ones who do not like you for who you will pass you by and this is the biggest favor they can do for you. You deserve to be wanted for who you are.
Offer Incentive to Get to Know You
Women don’t need to be spoon fed everything there is to know about you. When you are listing things in your interests, include something like, “anything else you want to know, just ask.” This will intrigue the women looking at your profile to wonder what else they might actually want to ask you. If you have made initial contact with them, this may be the part of the profile they pay attention to and ask you some questions they would like to know the answers to.
Stop Trying to Look Like the Perfect Guy
You are not the perfect guy and no woman expects you to be the perfect guy. You will beat yourself up trying to be something you are not only to find out the women do not respect you as a result. This is why when you are building your profile and you are talking with women, you can let them know you are flawed. Don’t talk yourself down or make it appear as if you are damaged goods, but be honest about who you are. Let them know if you do not know about something and be honest if you have certain limitations. She will respect you for being honest and will trust you to be honest with you as long as you know each other.