Once the girl has seen your profile and you have let each other know you are interested in talking, it is time to break the seal and make the first contact. This is often done in the form of an email. This is a very important email, because it is the first impression she will have of who you are and whether you are who you say you are in your profile. Take your time and make sure you are happy with what you wrote before you hit send. After all, you cannot get it back. Among the things to watch for is to keep your email brief, highlight you want to talk more and leave it open as to where things will go from here. This way, you have the greatest chances you will be able to keep talking with her.
Keep Your Email Brief
When a girl opens an email from a guy she does not know, she does not want to see a novel. If she sees a huge email in which you are going on and on about the guy you are and what you want, she is going to get freaked out and never reply. You have already listed all of the things you want her to know about you in your profile. The email is simply to establish contact and move forward with communication between the two of you. Make sure you have nothing more than just what you need to say in the email to make sure she will read it and be inclined to reply.
Highlight You Want to Talk More
Among the things you need to say in the email is that you are excited to hear back from her. Ask her a question in order to give a reason to respond to your email. If all you do is thank her for the email and tell her you hope she will respond, you have not given her anything to go on. Instead, ask something specific about her or what you might like to do together. This will help her to know exactly what to say when she responds and give her the incentive not to wait until she has something to say to respond to your email.
Leave It Open Where Things Will Go
Make sure you let her know you are excited to see where things will go, but make no suggestions about the possibilities of what the future may hold. Leave all of this to the imagination and for her to discover along with you. If she feels as if she is trapped into the course you are hoping the relationship will go in, she may be scared to answer. Make sure you are making her feel as comfortable as possible and you will likely get a response to your email. Keep in mind she does not know you and your email needs to give her the feeling she is safe getting to know you.