There’s a common male fantasy that says that if you find the right bisexual woman (or pair of bisexual women) you’ll be able to have a threesome. Bisexual women are put on a pedestal for this. The point of this article isn’t to argue that threesomes aren’t amazing (please, no one would argue that). Even if your bisexual woman is a one partner at a time kind of person, you should still consider yourself a very lucky man. Here’s why bisexual ladies are always a plus.
She Knows Herself
This isn’t a world that makes bisexuality easy to identify for men or women. The pressure is to be either gay or straight, and for a woman to freely and seriously identify as bisexual once she’s passed the age of 22 (when it stops being “cool”) is a serious commitment. This is a woman who really knows herself, and that means she really knows what she wants. If she says she just wants a friends-with-benefits relationship, you can be sure that that’s actually what she’s looking for.
This self-knowledge extends to the bedroom. She’s spent a lot of time thinking about sex, and probably a lot of time exploring it. She knows what she wants in the bedroom as well as how to get it. She’s not going to be shy about asking you to do what she needs. This means that you can be just as upfront about getting your own needs fulfilled.
She Has an Open Mind
You can bet that a bisexual woman has spent a lot of time thinking about sex. What she wants, what she likes, and all the options that are out there. With her own struggles just to find her own sexual identity, you know that she took a couple kinky stops along the way. She’s spent a long time working on self-acceptance and she’s therefore not likely to get weird if you confess a kink to her. She knows that there are lots of levels to human attraction. You can be confident that even if she’s not up for a specific kink herself, you’re not going to ruin everything just by asking her.
You Can Watch Porn Together
This is the most basic of all basic assumptions, but there’s nothing hotter than popping in a DVD or going online and finding porn to watch with your fling. Unlike most women, a bisexual woman will actually see the value in porn. She can enjoy the both or all participants while you focus on the women. Watching porn with someone and then reenacting it a very satisfying sexual experience and you can bet that a bisexual woman isn’t going to be immune to its charms.
So if you find yourself hooking up with a woman who admits to be bisexual make sure that you don’t lose her number. You’re going to want to call her up again and again to try new things, watch new skin flicks, and enjoy your time with an open minded, sexually confident woman.