Fetish Guides for You to Obsess Over
We’ve created this page to help you deal with common problems you may face during your search for a kinky partner for dating. We want to make sure that you don’t encounter any problems when you’re searching out the best fetish dating advice.
Fetish dating doesn’t have to be difficult. You have to be prepared.
Being prepared for whatever might and could arise means you have more brainpower to worry about the better things in life, like what you’re going to do with all of that fetish gear (rather than how to deal with fetish gear that’s cracking and breaking due to misuse). We want you to have the best time of your life, whether you’re just getting started and want to spice up your sex life or whether you want to start your own personal dungeon.
We also added relationship advice.
Many people who practice fetish play and fetishism believe that they have to be alone, or that they can only meet people for short-term relationships. We don’t believe that. There’s someone out there who can make you happy, no matter what you enjoy.
There are many fetishists that need some help beyond a simple “hello,” and we’ve tried to help out those who are right at home in a dungeon, but lost when it comes to relationships, they’re stuck. We want it to be easy for other fetishists to find what they’re looking for, whether that means you’re looking for romance, or you’re looking for just another kinky partner.
If you’re brand new to the fetish lifestyle, we’ll show you a great overview of what there is out there. We want you to feel comfortable, we want you to feel welcomed, and above all, we want you to make sure you feel good about joining the fetish community!
Here are the guides we’ve compiled to help you make your decisions about your first kinky adventures:
|Kinky & Proud! Why You Should Celebrate Your Fetish (More Than You Already Do)
We’ll show you why it’s important to let everyone know that you have a fetish, and you’re proud of it. You might be surprised about why we think this is true!
|Taboo? TaYAY: Everyone Has a Fetish
Don’t forget that you’re not alone in this life. Even the most vanilla people you can think of are hiding something, even if they aren’t aware it’s a fetish.
|How to Introduce Your Lover to Your Fetish & Increase the Quality of Your Sex Life
You might think that you have to find someone who’s already into the fetish dating scene-but what about getting someone into it? We’ll show you how to make that a reality.
| Keeping It Balanced – Partnership & Fetishism
Being a Dom or a sub can take a toll on your relationship – unless you know how to play your cards right. We’ll show you how to keep your fetish from taking over your relationship, and vice versa.
| All Your Loving: Correct Care for Your Fetishwear
No, you can’t wash-and-go. It’s important to treat your fetish gear and wear with the same care you would any other prop that’s essential to your sex life. We’ll show you how.
|A Whole New World – Discovering & Exploring Your Fetishes
Not sure where to start besides admiring the boys and girls in uniform? We’ll show you how to get started, and some fun ways you can take this fetish to the next level.
|Clothes Make the Man: Having Fun With a Uniform Fetish
Who says it has to begin and end at bondage? Even if you’ve been in the fetish scene for a while, there’s always more to learn. We’ll show you how to find out more at any stage of your fetishism.
|Smack the Pony! Petplay Variants You’ll Love
Petplay doesn’t begin and end with a leash and collar, and training doesn’t stop with “beg.” We’ll show you fun and interesting ways to explore a petplay fetish with any kind of partner.
|Meet Your Master: Finding the Right Partner
Finding someone to share these fetishes with isn’t easy, but it can be extremely rewarding, far beyond meeting someone for casual kinky fun. We’ll show you how to find that right person.
|Be the Attraction – Fetish Dating Site Profile Tips
Tired of chasing down the ones you want? We’ll teach you our favorite fetish dating tips for making them come to you, no matter what your age, experience level, or pleasure.
|Holiday? Five Kink Stars Please!
Who says you have to go to Myrtle Beach again this year? We’ll teach you the best and kinkiest destinations for your travel plans. Don’t worry, there’s rarely a dress code.
|No Pain No Gain: Sadomasochism in Relationships
Whoever said “love hurts” might have been on to something. We’ll show you how to (safely) explore sadomasochism, and how to ensure that both you and your partner get the most out of the situation.
|Take Your Breath Away – Asphyxiate Safely
We’re not suggesting you play The Choking Game, but we will teach you how to safely practice erotic asphyxiation, whether by yourself or with someone else around.
|Three Is When the Fun Starts: Finding a Third Person for Cuckoldry
Ever wanted to show up a partner (or be shown up) but don’t know where to start? We have some ideas.