Be the Attraction–Fetish Dating Site Profile Tips
We know that many people really dread writing a profile, even on legit fetish dating sites. We get it. It’s not the easiest to sit around and advertise yourself, because it is essentially a job application.
That being said, don’t put yourself out there like you’re a job candidate.
You’re a person, and you’ve got needs. Boy, do you have needs, and that’s why you’re looking to up your success rate and really manage to hookup with some amazing ladies. It’s not the easiest thing in the world to figure out what exactly people are looking for, and that’s why we’re here to help. We’ve written profiles so many times that we can’t count it anymore, and we know what draws people in, and what makes them want to run screaming away.
We’ve tested this again and again while reviewing sites.
When we review websites, we actually join the sites as members. We go through the exact same process that you do, and take our time becoming a member of the site’s community. That’s what it takes in order to get accurate results, so we take the time to make it happen.
During that time, we’ve really amassed a certain skill when it comes to figuring out what exactly women want out of us. There are a lot of different ways to make a profile, but we really do think that the way we’ve come up with is the way that works the best overall.
Make your profile arousing.
You’re on a fetish dating website. That means that women are looking at your profile wanting to be intrigued, interested…and aroused.
We’re not saying post pictures of your penis. That’s not sexy, and it’s just going to make them roll their eyes and run away.
What we’re saying is that you need to appear appealing within the scope of your interests, and the interests of the kind of partner that you’re looking to attract.
There are a few key features that can really help you.
Whenever you’re creating your profile, make sure that the picture that you choose is clear, recent, and gives a good view of your face. While this isn’t the only thing that women are going to judge you on, it can really help to have something that immediately draws their attention, and that’s your mug.
You also need to take care to have clear, precise writing within your profile. We’re not telling you to sound like a robot, because believe us–we’ve seen people do that, and it’s not pretty. We’re just saying that you need to have good grammar and spelling, and always be very open and confident about your interests.
You need to make your interests pop.
You’re on a fetish site. What you’re into is everything, and any woman that looks at your profile is going to want to know. Some sites let you run down a list of checkboxes, but don’t just rely on that.
Talk about your fetishes in the text. Be open and actively interested in those things, and you’ll be able to attract a much larger crowd than you ever have before.
The more confident you are in the fetishes that you talk about, the more likely you will have potential partners contact you. It should also be noted that anyone you send a message to is probably going to check out your profile. If you have a profile that is lively and appealing, there’s a much better chance they’re going to reply to you…and quickly.